Podcast - Tessmer Law Firm

Welcome to the Podcast

After 21+ years in the legal industry, Heather Tessmer, owner of Tessmer Law Firm, outlines her new podcast series.

The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast explores the red flags of potential partners, simplifies the Texas Family Code, and revisits war stories of growing a business as a mother, wife, and full-time attorney.

Finding The Perfect Spouse

Divorce Attorney, Heather Tessmer, discusses how to find your perfect spouse! Heather touches on good characteristics in a mate, maintaining a healthy sex life, long-distance relationships, and so much more!

In this episode, you will hear the love story of Heather and Kevin, a match made in heaven! So… how did this divorce attorney and military hunk fall in love? Listen now!

Relationship Red Flags

What is a narcissist? What red flags are worth ending a relationship?

Heather Tessmer, board-certified family law attorney, reviews some of her top red flags to look out for when dating. Stick around for a special Q&A this episode!

All About Marital Agreements

So… you are telling me prenups are not only meant for rich celebrities?

That’s right! Heather is here to break down premarital, post-marital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property!

Marital Agreements Part 2

So… you are telling me prenups are not only meant for rich celebrities?

Heather is here to break down premarital, post-marital, and many other types of marital agreements to protect you and your property!

What is a Bonus Mom?

The Ever Argue With A Woman Podcast proudly welcomes our FIRST guest! Jacqueline Cisneros, Billing Director and mother of four, is spilling all of her co-parenting secrets.

How to Choose a Divorce Attorney

How to Choose a Divorce Attorney with Heather Tessmer

Navigating a divorce is never easy, but choosing the right attorney can make all the difference. From simple, uncontested divorces to high-conflict battles, we discuss:

When a DIY divorce might work—and when it won’t
The pros and cons of collaborative divorce
Red flags to watch for when researching attorneys online
The credentials that actually matter—board certification, peer recognition, and more
The must-ask questions during an initial consultation

Whether you’re just starting the process or feeling overwhelmed by your options, this episode will help you make an informed decision.

Green Flags in a Relationship

Tired of focusing on red flags? This episode flips the script to spotlight the green flags that signal a healthy, thriving relationship. From chemistry and honest communication to mutual respect and emotional safety, Heather Tessmer explores what makes a partnership truly worth investing in. Learn how to spot signs like feeling free to be yourself, resolving conflict with care, and bringing out the best in each other. Tune in and subscribe for more insights about creating healthier, more fulfilling connections.

Military Marriage and Divorce

Military marriages can start fast—and end complicated. From housing and healthcare incentives to legal nuances like the Servicemembers Civil Relief Act and state-specific divorce rules, military families face unique pressures. This episode unpacks what service members and their spouses need to know about marriage, divorce, retirement benefits, and child custody in a system where the usual rules don’t always apply. Whether you’re in uniform or married to one, understanding your rights is key to protecting your future.

Do I need a Protective Order?

Navigating protective orders can be overwhelming—especially when you’re dealing with the trauma of abuse. In this episode, I break down what these legal tools can (and can’t) do, how to qualify, and what kind of evidence you’ll need. We’ll talk about their powers, their limits, and why safety planning beyond the courtroom is essential. Whether you’re seeking protection or supporting someone who is, this episode gives you the key info to take that next step with confidence.