Deciding to get a divorce can feel overwhelming, especially when you’re not sure where to start. You don’t have to figure everything out at once. We can take it one step at a time.
Your first steps are to understand your legal options, protect your finances, and make a plan for what comes next.
What to do first:
1. Make sure you’re safe
If your spouse has threatened, controlled, or hurt you, prioritize your safety before discussing divorce. If you fear their reaction, use a safe device to seek help and consider speaking with a domestic violence advocate.
2. Learn the divorce laws where you live
The process depends on your state or country. Local laws determine filing requirements, property division, spousal support, child custody, and how long the process takes.
3. Gather important documents
Start collecting copies of tax returns, bank and retirement account statements, mortgage or lease documents, debts, insurance policies, and recent pay stubs. Keep them somewhere secure that you can access.
4. Understand your financial situation
Make a list of monthly expenses, income, assets, and debts. Think about where you would live and how you would cover expenses if you lived separately. Avoid making major financial transfers or agreements before understanding the legal consequences.
5. Speak with a divorce attorney
An initial consultation can help you understand your rights, likely costs, and next steps. The divorce lawyers and legal team at Tessmer Law Firm have the knowledge, expertise, and experience to help you navigate the divorce process from beginning to end (or, as we like to call it, a new beginning)
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Disclaimer: This article provides general educational information and is not a substitute for legal advice.